I have a good/best guy friend.

Because we love living our life so much, it's hard to find a partner who can understand the freedom we must have. So, like any other best buddies, we made a silly pact. Now that he's already married, with a beautiful daughter, the pact eventually is void. Haha!

I remembered back then there were many friendd who made that pact AND an ex of mine used that as a reason to break up with me. The pact he made ,however was with someone else.

Sometimes I think about this particular pact that people made. Why? They're compatible but not being together.

In my case, I did love him. In fact more than I thought. We were never together but I did experience the heartache of being separated. Youngster years.

We attended different schools after our primary education. Liked him since I was 11, confessed when I was 16. Face to face?? NO!! Old school way, Remember IRC? Haha! Yeah, I guess time does fly. We became very close to this very day...well...That feelings have to be stopped after he's married 2 years ago? A little disappointed because it was a shot gun marriage. I guess he was looking for a reason to settle down. Well, as long as he's happy.

Anyways, I'm still searching. One who could guide me, teach me and help me become into a better person.

When people fake it.

Just imagine someone you know for quite sometime who can't speak proper English nor studied abroad. Suddenly the public profile says, "Graduated from University of XXXX in UK Class of 2002" when in fact the person was in the country the whole time working as a beautician.
Then you wonder if that individual took a long distance course but how? That institution offers no long distant course. No one had ever talked about it. No graduation photos, no proof. So, what do you think? You might think I'm out of line to be meddling in other people's business.
Reason #1
I've known the spouse for more than 2 decades and understand a great deal of the things the spouse had to go through to achieve what they have today. As petty as it looks, it could destroy the spouse's reputation.

Reason #2
Those who know me very well know I do not deal with fabrications/forgery very kindly nor am I very forgiving when it comes to the fabrication of one's education qualifications.

Reason #3
From all the previous business transactions made, I can only say, no knowledge in research methods.

Class of 2002, that means that individual graduated with a degree at the age of 22, which of course is not impossible if gifted with a smart brain but based on what I know, clearly that individual didn't give much of a thought.

I'm just worried, that's all. People can hide one skeleton in their closets. The moment you've gotten so used to making use of your closet, it is bound to spill. It'll be too late by then. Never lie. Never breach any trust entrusted to you. Never betray. Too much cover ups just to protect the first skeleton from being discovered.

This entry isn't really about that particular individual but the types of people we have in our society. Anyways, lies, breach of trust, frogery, greed etc are often the reasons people fall.